Stability of an ODE
An ODE is stable if small perturbations in the initial condition remain bounded for all future time.
Formally, the ODE is stable if: for any there exists such that
where and are two solutions starting from nearby initial conditions.
In other words, two solutions that start close together do not diverge from each other. This is a property of the ODE itself, independent of the numerical method used to solve it.
The stability of the ODE is a prerequisite for the Lax equivalence theorem: we need the problem to be well-posed before asking whether a numerical method converges. The stability of the numerical method itself is a separate question - see Stability of a method.
Stability of a method | Convergence | Lax Equivalence Theorem